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We have many amazing people with interesting stories that walk into all our gyms! This member spotlight turns to Vincent Tchedry, blue belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and traveller from Switzerland. Vincent has been training with us since last 2018, has competed at Grappling Industries to receive double silver in gi and no-gi and always has a friendly ‘hello, hello’ for everyone! Read on to find out more about Vincent.

Occupation: Student & Wine Seller

Martial Arts/Sports: Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

How did you get into the sport?

Curiosity, and then got my ass kicked by a lighter female (and I loved it).

What are your immediate training goals?

Improve my game to compete.

What are your goals for the next five years?

Get swole! Eventually my purple belt!

Why do you love training at Absolute MMA?

Good vibes, quality and diverse training partners!

What is your favourite move?

Bow & arrow in Gi; Rear naked choke in No-Gi!

Favourite workout/walkout song?

OooWee by Rapsody.

Nicknames & Fight Names?

The Vegan Princess (to stay politically correct).

What do you like to do to relax beside training?

Eat, vape, read, Netflix and chill!

Can you tell us about where you’re from and any interesting stories growing up? If you’re not originally from Melbourne, how’d you end up living in Melbourne, Australia?

Born in Berlin, then lived in Thessaloniki, Brussels, Lausanne, Malmö before arriving in Melbourne. I had some insecurities as a teenager, which translated into aggressivity. Got attacked a couple times and wanted to learn how to fight properly. Went to the army and did boxing for two years. Then tried grappling with a certain confidence and got humbled, which got me hooked since then!

Who are the kind of people that you look up to and why?

Any hard workers and achievers with bad initial circumstances, who flipped their lives around! Makes me appreciate what I have, feeling grateful and eager for more! Lately, I’m looking into David Goggins’ accomplishments.

What’s your favourite place to eat in Melbourne and your #1 dish recommendation?

Many will hate me for this but I see food as a source of energy. Anything whole food plant based will do.

If you could go back in time to your first martial art class, what would be the advice you give to your past self?

Get another partner! Just kidding, I’d say: “Leave your ego at the door and reduce your f**king intensity bro!”

“Vincent is a noodle armed, guard pulling little vegan b*tch. Every time he has rear naked choked me and bow and arrowed me has been a complete fluke.”- Lee Harker 

“When I moved to Melbourne last year and joined Absolute, Vinnie was one of the first people that I met. We’d often partner up during rounds which were always full on! He catches me pretty much every time we roll, and I never used to mind until I found out I was tapping to a Vegan! Jokes aside Vinnie is now somebody that I can certainly call a friend for life. He has a great energy that he brings wherever he goes and is always a laugh to be around, especially when he’s screaming Ronnie Coleman quotes from the other side of the gym, “YEAHHHHHHH BUDDYYYYYYY!!!”- Sam Teeling 

“He’s a vegan.” – Richard Lattemagi 

“Vincent is a lovely bloke, feisty as hell on the mats, and very genuine off the mats. I appreciate sharing the mats with another environmental warrior too! He has a nice moustache.”- James Walters

We have many amazing people with interesting stories that walk into all our gyms! This member spotlight turns to Hannah Gorman, member of the year for 2018, an awesome asset to our gym, and massive support for the female team. This high-level Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu brown belt can be found taking amazing photos of the crew and we have her to thank for many of our profile pictures. Thank you for all your great photography Hannah, and for being part of the team! Read on to find out more about Hannah!

Martial Arts/Sports: Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

How did you get into the sport?

I’d always been a sporty person, and in late 2010, when I started watching Elite XC I instantly knew I wanted to start MMA. When I contacted my local gym to sign up, the coach there asked me if I had any ground fighting experience. I told him I didn’t, and I made it pretty clear that I wasn’t interested, but he insisted I tried a Jiu-Jitsu class. I reluctantly showed up to a class, where we were learning how to break closed guard. I got hooked right away and remember how sore my body was for days afterwards! Haha. I trained MMA alongside Jiu-Jitsu for a few months, but I kept getting small injuries from MMA and would miss a couple of weeks of training. It was when I realised I missed Jiu-Jitsu more than the MMA that I ditched the MMA and trained solely in Jiu Jitsu.

What are your immediate training goals?

I’m not an avid competitor, but I should push myself to compete more this year. I also have Lachie’s half guard DVD and Craig’s leg lock DVD to work through!

What are your goals for the next five years?

I need to maintain a regular stretching and strength program to keep my back and hips strong for training. I don’t recover as fast as I used to. I’m also patiently waiting for something magical to happen to my Jiu Jitsu over the next few years as my next belt is the black coloured one.

Why do you love training at Absolute MMA?

I think anytime you share an obsession with a heap of people, they become like a second family. The added benefit to Absolute MMA is the world-class coaching team; not every gym has such a high level of instruction and/or world champions to call train with and learn from. It’s also the only gym I’ve trained at that has a constantly expanding group of ladies on the mat which is a testament to the inclusive nature at all 3 of the gyms. The Jits’n’tits girls in St Kilda were super welcoming to me, and they’ve become the best friends I could have asked for.

What is your favourite move?

Sweeps from deep half guard. I’m also partial to a leg lock.

Favourite workout/walkout song?

I listen to everything from 90’s garage to chill-hop. I endure whatever trash is played during training!

What do you like to do to relax besides training?

I like to take photos at training and to make mini-movies. I also like skating and surfing.

Can you tell us about where you’re from and any interesting stories growing up? If you’re not originally from Melbourne, how’d you end up living in Melbourne, Australia?

I moved to Melbourne from Devon in the UK, after always wanting to move to Australia. My parents used to live in Queensland and I used to holiday there lots as a kid.

Who are the kind of people that you look up to and why?

I look up to Lachie and Liv, as not only are they world-class athletes and coaches, but they take the time to help everyone learn, regardless of their ability. They show us techniques, and then go out and win world championship medals using the same techniques they’ve taught us. What more could you ask for?! I also really look up to the guys and girls at the St Kilda gym. A mix of totally different people who all get along super well and encourage each other to be the best they can be. It’s a great atmosphere!

What’s your favourite place to eat in Melbourne and your #1 dish recommendation?

I love eating at Sister of Soul in St Kilda. I recommend the nasi goreng and the polenta jenga. And the massaman curry. Ooo, and the udon noodles. All of it. I recommend all of it.

If you could go back in time to your first martial art class, what would be the advice you give to your past self?

Not to compare my abilities to others, to enjoy each stripe at each belt and to not avoid training my weak areas.

“She’s alright… for a British brown belt bellend.”- Young Nghiem 

“Hannah loves celebrating her birthday. She loves introductions and talking about herself. She wishes she got happy birthday sang to her every day. In all seriousness though, she is one of the nicest people I know. She is caring and the most supportive and inclusive teammate ever. Her BJJ is also amazing and she loves to sit on me and squish me and footlock me 10x a roll. Absolute would not be the same without her.” – Livia Giles

“Hannah is amazing to have around the club, she is always helping out, making cool videos, and leg locking people.” – Lachlan Giles

“Hannah is the biggest bellend of us all. She likes kunbaya and is the initiator of our weekly circle time during the girls class. She loves being the centre of attention and she loves to dance. She also loves heel hooking people in the gi – especially the white belts. Having said all that, Hannah also hides behind her cameras and takes all the cool shots of us! Hannah is one of the most caring and supportive team mate and we love love loveeee her to bits!! Make sure you wish her a happy birthday every time you see her around at the gym, she’ll definitely appreciate all the love!” – Chisaki Akiyama

We have many amazing people with interesting stories that walk into all our gyms! This member spotlight turns to Marisa “Habanero” Amaya, one of our regular Absolute MMA Collingwood Muay Thai students! This incredible lady is currently working hard at Rainbow Serpent, keeping festival goers safe so be sure to say hello if you see her around! (Check out DanceWize,  a program of Harm Reduction Victoria (HRVic) here: https://m.facebook.com/DanceWize-128640987649) Read on to find out more about Marisa!

Occupation: Sourcing

Martial Arts/Sports: Muay Thai

How did you get into the sport?

I use to live next to the gym Claire and Tao were at before Absolute. I kept walking past and eventually summoned up the courage to go in. To be honest, I had no idea what Muay Thai was 😅 But I was hooked from the first day (Thanks to Claire!♥️).

What are your immediate training goals?

To sweep all the boys.

What are your goals for the next five years?

Training wise – I just want to keep turning up. I’ll be well in my 40’s in 5 years so I’ll be happy if I can still hold my own with the young ones! Life wise – I want to live in Berlin for at least a year, write a book and climb Mt Kilimanjaro.

Why do you love training at Absolute MMA?

It’s my home. Well, other than Revs (which also has a cage in it), I’ve met some of my closest friends here. Sure, there’s ups and downs but we go through the sh*t together. And really, if you can’t punch your friends in the face what’s the point? Haha.

Favourite workout/walkout song?

“Baddest Bitch in the Room!” By Norma Jean Bell feat Moodymann 😍 It’s a disco, funk track.

What do you like to do to relax beside training?

I love music. I love dancing and I love being creative. So, I’m at a lot of gigs, Revs, and doofs in the summer! I also love baths. I have at least 2 per week.

Can you tell us about where you’re from and any interesting stories growing up? If you’re not originally from Melbourne, how’d you end up living in Melbourne, Australia?

I had a pretty shitty life until I was 29. Mainly due to drugs and alcohol. I won’t go into that but in 2010 I reached my rock bottom. It was life or death. And like one of my favourite movies quotes… I chose LIFE. I haven’t had a drink or a drug for over 8 years. I can honestly say, my life has changed in ways I didn’t think possible. It certainly wasn’t easy but f**k, those hard early days were worth it. I’m by no means ashamed of my past and love to share my experience whenever possible. You never know who might need to hear it ♥️ Whatever your demons are, you CAN come out on top. There’s always hope, ya know?

Who are the kind of people that you look up to and why?

I look up to people who are unapologetically themselves. Even if they annoy me, I respect the realness. I look up to women in general, but strong, powerful women who fight for what they believe in. I look up to people who work hard and smash their goals, whether its in sport or in real life. I look up to creative people. The dreamers. 😍

But mainly I look up to tall people like Joe, Oliver, Claire, Jess, Kylie, Hector ok…everyone is taller.

What’s your favourite place to eat in Melbourne and your #1 dish recommendation?

The Grand in Richmond has the best gnocchi in the world. And Colonel Tan’s (Revs 😆) does some pretty amazing Thai with the added bonus of excellent music 👌🏾

If you could go back in time to your first martial art class, what would be the advice you give to your past self?

Write L and R on your gloves, pivot when you kick and stretch!!!!!!

“Marisa is an absolute LEGEND! She is one of the most caring people I know and she has a heart of gold. She is such a strong woman (both mentally and physically) and she is a real inspiration to me. Marisa also has a tan to die for and a great set of boobies.”- Lisa Kyriacou, training partner

“Marisa is a surprisingly lovely person once you get her to take her headphones out!”- Oliver Smith 

“Marisa is a testament to the great leaps and bounds that women can make through combats sports training. Marisa was able to build both confidence and self resolve by overcoming huge hurdles. Muay Thai Kickboxing has played an integral part of that journey. Marisa represents yet another example of how combat sports is hugely beneficial for women and that it’s absolutely not just a men’s sport.”- Jai Tao 

We have many amazing people with interesting stories that walk into all our gyms! This member spotlight turns to Kyle Rodda, Financial Market Analyst and regular in our Melbourne CBD Boxing classes. Kyle is the guy that everyone goes to and says “Didn’t I see you on the television yesterday?” and if you keep your eyes peeled, you will indeed catch him on the big screen giving us all the financial news! Super humble and friendly, Kyle is known for consistently working hard in class, rain or shine, and we’re super happy to have him in the gym. Read on to find out more about Kyle!

Martial Arts/Sports: Boxing

How did you get into the sport?

I’d gotten back into playing football, but quickly realized I had no interest in it anymore. I wanted to find something that I could feel passionate about while keeping fit. I Googled boxing gyms in the CBD, found Absolute MMA, and totally found what I was looking for.

What are your immediate training goals?

To learn how to throw a hook properly. 18 months in and I am still working that one out.

What are your goals for the next five years?

By that stage, I’ll hopefully have learned how to throw a hook. If so, perhaps getting into the ring once to experience what competition is all about – that would be a big achievement for me.

Why do you love training at Absolute MMA?

It all starts with the people. Everything else is secondary and evolves from that. The place has such a great culture. I’ve become a fitter and happier person since beginning my training. More importantly, though, I think I have become a better person for all the lessons I’ve learned from all the people I have met.

What is your favorite move?

That awkward thing that happens when one person goes for the fist-pound and the other person goes for the handshake. With my fighting ability, that’s about as graceful and lethal as I get.

Favorite workout/walkout song?

I love my music, so this is tough. I probably don’t listen to enough of the kind of music that would make for a good work-out/walk-out song. My first thought would be Rage Against The Machine – heavy, energetic, and gets you nice and p*ssed-off about the world. A good state of mind to be in before you gear-up to Box.

Nicknames & Fight Names?

“Kyl-o” is as probably as good as I have gotten since being at Absolute. Not too fearsome, unfortunately. Any nicknames I’ve had tend to a derivative of my last name. Simply Rodda is an easy one – Kyle always feels like a pain to say.

What do you like to do to relax beside training?

Playing guitar, outside of boxing, has always been the way I have unwound and centered myself. Otherwise, I have a 6 and 8-year-old brother and sister. I try to spend as much time with them as I can.

Can you tell us about where you’re from and any interesting stories growing up? If you’re not originally from Melbourne, how’d you end up living in Melbourne, Australia?

It’s one of the beautiful quirks of training at Absolute MMA in the city: I am Melbourne born and raised, and with the people that I have met, that seems to be a novelty! There are so many different people who train at the gym from so many different backgrounds.

My piece of personal trivia tends to always be that I was expelled from two high schools. That was probably one of the defining features of my upbringing. Otherwise, I think I am just another middle-class, white-break kid from Melbourne’s Eastern suburbs, I’m afraid!

Who are the kind of people that you look up to and why?

The people I admire most are those with intelligence, self-awareness and strong ethics. I really enjoy being around people with a truly unique perspective on the world – something different from my own. I’ve been lucky enough to meet a few of these types at Absolute MMA.

What’s your favorite place to eat in Melbourne and your #1 dish recommendation?

There was a time where I loved dining out. But I went vegan, and your options tend to be narrowed quite a lot if you do that.

So two answers in light of that: Minamishima in Richmond was awesome – the sashimi degustation there was a blast; in terms of vegan eats, Neko Neko is a vegan-Japanese ramen place that I really enjoy.

If you could go back in time to your first martial art class, what would be the advice you give to your past self?

Go make friends with the raucous crowd training in the corner – they are good people.

“The lean mean Vegan Machine is a great assist to the gym. He always puts in the work and is a great partner to train with.”- Karman Moodley

“Kyle was one of my first good friends at the gym. Not only a great boxing partner, but he can also mesmerize you with crazy knowledge about history. When he’s not at the gym you can find him suited up on telly running the financial review. What a dude!” – Linnea Waestberg

“Kyle is always dedicated to his training. Even after a big Friday night on the piss he shows up for that Saturday class despite the fact he smells like a distillery. Kyle is great advertisement for the gym. He always has his Absolute t-shirt on everywhere he goes. Sometimes I wonder if that’s the only shirt he owns. In all seriousness though, Kyle is always great to have around. He is funny, thoughtful and kind. You know you are going to have a great training session when you partner up with him.”- Ashley Pate

“Kyle is proof that awesomeness can rub off, while I was only able to pass on a pinch of it, that pinch of awesomeness has seen Kyle come a long way… Or maybe it’s his regular consistent hard work always turning up to class putting in the effort. Either way, once he learns to relax he’ll go even further. Keep at it bro.” – Jeremy Wharerau

We have many amazing people with interesting stories that walk into all our gyms! This member spotlight turns to Sarah Sinclair, three stripe white belt and one of our Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu ladies! Sarah can be found powering through two to three classes a day and is progressing rapidly in BJJ after making the move from Karate. She loves a good giggle, is a meme master and is always making us laugh in and out of the gym! Read on to find out more about Sarah.

Occupation: Business Banking Associate
Martial Arts/Sports: Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

How did you get into the sport?

I’ve always wanted to train in BJJ, however cross training was discouraged in my Karate Club. After I graded to 2nd Dan, I decided to take a break and reached out to a friend who trained at Absolute. Best decision I’ve ever made 🙂

What are your immediate training goals?

Currently strengthening and rehabilitation of my knee, so that I can roll more confidently and fully trust my movement. Competing is also on the horizon this year for me, so I’m aiming to ramp up the training and get better at take downs.

What are your goals for the next five years?

In the next 5 years, I’d like to have more experience with competing, possibly even have the opportunity to do some training and comps overseas. Movement is also something I’m committed to improving with respect to training.

Why do you love training at Absolute MMA?

The people are amazing here, and the calibre and range of experience across the coaches and other students means that I will always have the opportunity to improve. The culture and support here is fantastic.

What is your favourite move?

I’m really liking the weave pass at the moment, and also the bow and arrow.

Favourite workout/walkout song?

I like a lot of random stuff – I’d say that the majority of my collection is a combination of alternative, metal, progressive trance and deep house. Lately I’ve been listening to a lot of Lane 8.

Nicknames & Fight Names?

The first nickname I got at Absolute was “Sezzy-Lee” haha, I’ve recently also acquired “Jandals”.

What do you like to do to relax besides training?

I’m probably the most relaxed after a swim, but I usually wind down on the couch watching something on Netflix 🙂

Can you tell us about where you’re from and any interesting stories growing up? If you’re not originally from Melbourne, how’d you end up living in Melbourne, Australia?

I grew up in a rural town on the Bellarine Peninsula called Portarlington and moved out when I was 19. Since then, I’ve kind of bounced around Melbourne and finally settled in St Kilda 🙂 Also one of the best decisions I’ve made 🙂

Who are the kind of people that you look up to and why?

I’d say the people I train with, especially the people who have the time and patience to coach me during a roll 🙂 you know who you are.

What’s your favourite place to eat in Melbourne and your #1 dish recommendation?

Oh my god, there are so many!! I really enjoy ramen – and there’s an awesome ramen bar in China Town called Fukuryu Ramen. If you upload a pic of yourself with the ramen on Insta, you get free green tea ice cream!!! Also, if you’re ever down Geelong way, Fujisan on Ryrie Street have a decent ramen as well 🙂

If you could go back in time to your first martial art class, what would be the advice you give to your past self?

I’d probably tell myself to relax (something that I’m still needing to remember now and then). Also to listen to my body and not ignore the niggly little injuries.

“A powerhouse, keep an eye on her or you’ll be in danger! On and off the mats. She’s also a firecracker and fun to hang out with.”- Tina Trinh

“Sarah’s determination and dedication are dwarfed only by the positive energy she brings to the mats, she’s like a beam of sunshine in a Gi, straight to the top I reckon.” – Maxwell Mews

“To explain Sarah I have prepared a bunch of meme and video references Christmas Pud video, the meme breaking the treat in half does not count as two treats and the video of a golden retriever playing with a golf ball, drops the ball in then celebrates with a romp. With references like these, it’s clear, Sarah loves a good laugh, she’s funny and adorably lovable when it comes to training and rolling.

She is my daily dose of fun and laughs, I always leave with a smile when hanging out with Sarah, you stay classy and never change.” – Apryl Eppinger

“She’s funny, nice and very positive. On the mat, she has an aggressive style and she has been progressing a lot lately. She’s a nice girl.”- Thiago Stefanutti

We have many amazing people with interesting stories that walk into all our gyms! This member spotlight turns to Kim Cousins, brown belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, active competitor on the BJJ scene and super mum to not one, not two but three teenagers! Kim has competed at the Asian Open, the Pan Pacifics, Masters World Championships, AJJC (The Australian Jiu-Jitsu Championship), IBJJF Sydney Open and many more competitions. Thank you for all your support and help with our Women’s BJJ team Kim! Read on to find out more about this superwoman!

Occupation: Planning & assessing officer

Martial art: Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

How did you get into the sport?

My ex husband did BJJ back in the 90s. When we split up, I was looking for an exercise outlet to get me out of my garage and squat rack, and get me meeting some new people. Bjj seemed like the obvious choice.

What are your immediate training goals?

To land a clean take-down 😉

What are your goals for the next five years?

To keep improving, and work on the weaker sides of my game. Lately I’ve been working on wrestling and am enjoying working on my stand up and No-Gi game.

Why do you love training at Absolute MMA?

The people and the skill level. I feel blessed to have the opportunity to be able to train in three world class facilities, all bringing their own uniqueness to my training.

What is your favourite move?

Bow and arrow.

Favourite workout/walkout song?

I have very eclectic music taste. My playlists include anything from Madonna to Black Sabbath to Depeche Mode. I do love some bad 80s dance though, much to my kids’ disgust.

Nicknames & Fight Names?

I’m sadly still yet to receive a Portuguese nickname 😉

What do you like to do to relax besides training?

I love bikram yoga. While sweating in a 40 degree room for 90 minutes isn’t everyone’s idea of relaxing, I love it!

Who am I kidding? Food and alcohol (as in photo above) is how I really like to relax.

Can you tell us about where you’re from and any interesting stories growing up? If you’re not originally from Melbourne, how’d you end up living in Melbourne, Australia?

I’m born and bred in Melbourne and love it too much to move. I come from a strong swimming family; my grandfather went to the Commonwealth Games and I grew up getting up at 4.30am to train before school. Now my kids are a bit older I’m planning to hit up the early morning classes in the New Year. I’m definitely a morning person!

What’s your favourite place to eat in Melbourne and your #1 dish recommendation?

I look after my kids full time and don’t get out much, so anytime that someone wants cook a meal for me, I’m hugely appreciative. (I’m happy to take any offers😉)

If you could go back in time to your first martial art class, what would be the advice you give to your past self?

Don’t be so hard on yourself (I still struggle with that one!).

“Kim is a power house! She also fits more into a day then I fit into a week! I always love getting to partner up with Kim on the mats… her technical expertise and her sense of humour ensure it’s gonna be a good session!”- Maryanne Mullahy

“Kim is my hero! Whoever knows her history on BJJ and life will understand why she is my hero!”- Coach Thiago Stefanutti

“Kim is an awesome training partner, always smiling and full of energy. Trying to get out of her half guard is nerve-racking.”- Juliette Brillet

“I have heaps of admiration for Kim. Not only is she a total badass on the mat but she’s an incredible, genuine person. Absolute MMA are very lucky to have her as part of the team, and I’m very grateful to have her as a team mate! 🙂”- Hannah Gorman

“Kim has the kind of arms Gods envy. When you need support Kim will back you in anyway she can (arms included). My main training partner and a very dear friend and sister, she has pushed and challenged me on the mat more than she knows. Kim is both warm and giving. And I hope one day I can have arms like hers and be as awesome as she is on and off the mat.”- Apryl Eppinger

“Kim is such a powerhouse! Whether it’s jiujitsu, wrestling, lifting, yoga or cryotherapy, she’s always busy putting everyone else to shame with her seemingly endless energy and drive. She’s a supportive team mate, a frequent competitor and a good friend. You couldn’t ask for a better teammate.”- Natalie Hobbs

We have many amazing people with interesting stories that walk into all our gyms! This member spotlight turns to Bek Dimase, aspiring Muay Thai fighter who is looking to make her debut in 2019! Bek has shed an inspiring amount of 8kgs this year, and we couldn’t be prouder of all that she’s achieved in terms of her fitness and martial arts technique. We can’t wait to see Bek get in the ring next year and we know she has the motivation and dedication to go far. Read on to find out more about Bek!

Occupation: Project Integation and Change Lead
Martial Arts/Sports: Muay Thai and kickboxing

How did you get into the sport?

I’ve always had a fascination with fighting and followed a lot of different promotions/fighters. Always curious but too nervous to try, it wasn’t until I met my partner (who coincidentally is a kick boxer) and his continuous encouragement (nagging) that got me over the line to give it a go. Haven’t looked back since my first class!

What are your immediate training goals?

Immediate training goals are to lose the last 5 kilos to fight weight, get up my sparring and land that beautiful question mark head kick… and of course have my first fight!

What are your goals for the next five years?

The next 5 years is a big one… I’m just focused on getting to my first fight, haha! I just want to keep pushing and see where I end up. And travelling, I intend to do lots of that!

Why do you love training at Absolute MMA?

I love the people more than anything. The coaches and other members have made the gym feel like a second home to me. I’ve always been able to be myself, have fun, challenge myself, and am kept accountable… I’ve never experienced that at any other gym.

What is your favourite move?

I love a good question mark kick and the oh so sweet feeling when it lands, haha.

Favourite workout/walkout song?

Currently is – here comes hot stepper – Ini Kamoze.

Nicknames & Fight Names?

The only consistent ones are “the boss” or Toohey likes to call me “Bekka the Wrecka”.

What do you like to do to relax besides training?

I love a good beach session or just being outside generally. I find sunshine and nature helps me reconnect to myself and disconnect from the hustle and bustle that life and work can sometimes bring.

Can you tell us about where you’re from and any interesting stories growing up? If you’re not originally from Melbourne, how’d you end up living in Melbourne, Australia?

My favourite childhood memory is going to my Nonna & Nonno’s place at the end of every summer on National Wog Day (it’s real!) and making pasta sauce from my nonno’s home grown tomatoes. My job was to pop the basil in the bottles and I remember my nonno would inspect them! It’s a tradition that we still do every year and means so much to me…. nonno still inspects my basil placement… it’s a tough gig!

Who are the kind of people that you look up to and why?

For me, those that are honest, kind, courageous and show integrity are the people that I look up to the most, as these are attributes I aspire to grow within myself. Over the last year, I’ve really looked up to my parents, siblings and partner more and more. Through a really tough year, they’ve demonstrated all of the above and that has really inspired and helped me be a better person.

What’s your favourite place to eat in Melbourne and your #1 dish recommendation?

Um, if I had to pick it’d be the club sandwich from Smith & Deli, or just the whole menu at Smith & Daughters next door.

If you could go back in time to your first martial art class, what would be the advice you give to your past self?

I’d probably tell myself four things
1. It’s okay to be uncomfortable, it’s not okay to give up.
2. You don’t have to get it right the first time
3. Learn to love the journey, it’s a bloody long one!
4. KEEP YOUR GUARD UP WHATEVER YOU DO!!

“Bek is a super dedicated member of the gym. She always shows up and works hard! You’ll always get a good sweat on if you get to train with this Nak Muay. Try to do it before she betrays us and leaves Australia forever next year!”- Mary Hoang

“So very proud of what Bek has achieved over the last year or so. When she started she had one good punch with the rest as powerful as a slap in the face by a wet bus ticket but kicked like a mule, an ancient broken down one legged blind mule…so we had room to grow. Not to mention some big weight loss goals. Bek through consistent hard work has shed the kgs turning into a bomb throwing gangsta who now kicks like a young powerlifting mule whose mother was just insulted. All this growth and hard work has her ready for her debut fight this February. Onya Bek, go get it!!!” – Coach Jeremy Wharerau

“It’s always great pairing up with Bek in class. She’s dedicated, has great technique, gives good pointers to you on how to improve and sets a perfect pace! Bek has overcome some hard points in her journey in 2018 and I can’t wait to see what 2019 brings for her. Thanks for all your honesty, advice, dances in between rounds and friendship this year!” – Emilie Yap

“Bek is such a happy energy to have in the gym – when you walk in and she’s there I know we’re going up a level for that session. Super excited to see her fight in 2019!!”- Georgia Verry

“Bek is the hardest working person I know. Whenever she sets her mind on something there is nothing that will stop her. She’s the best muay thai partner and definitely isn’t afraid to let you know if your guard is down. She always pushes me to the limit but somehow makes it fun at the same time. I can’t wait to see her step into the ring and smash it in 2019!” – Licia Yeo

“When I first saw Bek I thought she had the potential to become a quality fighter. She always listens to my advice, asks good questions and when I explain something to her she does it. She surprised me when she said that she wants to train to become a fighter- then I say she’s talking my language now! Hopefully it will be a good year for Bek, I believe in her division she will crack some heads!” – Coach Laos Toohey

We have many amazing people with interesting stories that walk into all our gyms! This member spotlight turns to Nick Metcalfe, our upfront yogi who doesn’t hold back. Nick is a purple belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and regularly supports our competition team in their training. He’s known for his long limbs, sneaky triangles and an extreme love of his dog, Trey. Read on to find out more about Nick!

Occupation: Event manager/yoga instructor

Martial Arts/Sports: Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

How did you get into the sport?

My best mate was going to PUMMA on the Gold Coast to try out a MMA class, he called me on his way and said do you want to tag along… That was 6 years ago.

What are your immediate training goals?

Help the team get ready for any competitions they have, stay in shape in case I decide to return to competing.

What are your goals for the next five years?

Teach more yoga, get a new color belt possibly, get another dog.

Why do you love training at Absolute MMA?

It’s the vibe. But seriously the people, the team, the coaches, the facility and getting to train across three location with the best athletes in Australia.

What is your favorite move?

Ankle pick or RNC

Favorite workout/walkout song?

Kendrick- M.A.A.D City

Nicknames & Fight Names?

Milky, ginger, angry yogi (thanks Apryl).

What do you like to do to relax besides training?

Yoga, meditate, hang out with trey, jump in the ocean.

Can you tell us about where you’re from and any interesting stories growing up? If you’re not originally from Melbourne, how’d you end up living in Melbourne, Australia?

Grew up on the Gold Coast and spent 25 years there. Clare got a job in Melbourne so being the epic boyfriend I am, we moved. While I was training at PUMMA I was told by multiple team mates to come train at Absolute when I moved. I got a job across the road, walked in, paid my fees and have been here ever since.

Who are the kind of people that you look up to and why?

Few special mentions Aaron S., Thiago S., Dustin B. & Jebba, they’ve been a significant part of my journey to now, but it’s important to keep an open mind because you can learn from anyone.

What’s your favorite place to eat in Melbourne and your #1 dish recommendation?

Shanghai village – order all the dumplings.

If you could go back in time to your first martial art class, what would be the advice you give to your past self?

Turn up on time, listen to your coach, drink more water, eat all the calories, have fun, don’t quit, it is what it is as it is, namaste.

“BJJer, yogi, ginger man. So creative on the mats and a funny one outside them. A brother life has brought from Queensland to us.” – Thiago Stefanutti

“The angry yoda troll! Who yoga’s with the biggest heart. If Nick isn’t hangry he’s hanging with his boy Trey (doggo). Insulting you with snappy quips, egging on Clare and snapping on reverse triangles. What a bastard. He knows that’s what I think.” – Apryl Eppinger

“Long-limbed, red haired, stretchy, negative-reinforcement-happy (;P) crazy person. He’s alright I guess.” – Natalie Hobbs

“I remember first meeting Nick on the mat, when he first came to Absolute and thinking that despite it being one of his first times in the gym, it seemed like he’d been there for years. He’s welcoming to everyone on the mat, helpful to everyone and always quick to make sure everyone feels just as much at home at Absolute as he does. He’s also the guy that I’ll see doing every coaches class, across all of the locations and is known across the whole Absolute family. Hilarious, ridiculously flexible, and the strongest moustache in the game. He made sure to support my classes when I first came on board as a coach for the gym and he’s always there supporting everyone in the pursuits within the gym or outside of. He’s made Absolute his home since day one, and I couldn’t imagine the gym without him!”- Amit Narayan

“Nick is fun, creative, open minded and loves the banter! He has a lot of patience and will always give his time to help others! Namaste Nick!” – Clare Fisher

“Nick is such a great person to train with, always willing to help and throwing jokes while smashing you. Thanks!” – Juliette Brillet

We have many amazing people with interesting stories that walk into all our gyms! This member spotlight turns to Juliette Brillet, a French, bicycle riding blue belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. Known for her extreme work ethic and boundless energy, Juliette is a competition class regular at Melbourne CBD and always has a smile for everyone! Read on to find out more about Juliette!

Occupation: Chef

Martial Arts/Sports: Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

How did you get into the sport?

When I was living in London, I decided to take martial art classes again as a hobby and ended up joining a Checkmat gym down the road. I was pretty confused by the techniques and the rules at first. My coach was very supportive and sent me to a woman only seminar in an affiliated gym. I got twisted like a puppet and submitted more times than one can count by a skinny 11 year old yellow belt. I’ve been pretty obsessed with the sport ever since.

What are your immediate training goals?

Attending classes as much as I can balance with work, whilst trying to get quality training in instead of over training. I aim to make my opponent feel like I’m twice as heavy as I am.

What are your goals for the next five years?

To sharpen my Jiu-Jitsu, enter more tournaments and stay reasonably uninjured. Trying to not make my ears look like I’m an east European wrestler. Whenever I get PR, I’d also like to go back to uni and study sport nutrition.

Why do you love training at Absolute MMA?

The thing I love the most is the people. Everyone is always very welcoming, respectful and available to help each other. There’s no ego around. Also having classes all day makes things very convenient for shift workers.

What is your favorite move?

Although I’ve recently started trying to grab more legs, I love chokes. I love them all.

Favourite workout/walkout song?

Whilst training I love listening to the kind of rock music I grew up with, like the Offspring or Sum 41. I’m also playing Chvrches on repeat at the minute. On competition day I tend to listen to Britney Spears or similar cheap commercial pop, cause it cheers me up. Stop judging.

Nicknames & Fight Names?

Jules, Frenchie

What do you like to do to relax besides training?

I like to cycle, or go read a book outdoors and try new hipster cafes. I can often be found walking around in Ikea for no reason. I’m also on a quest to visit all the rooftop bars Melbourne has to offer. Wish me luck.

Can you tell us about where you’re from and any interesting stories growing up? If you’re not originally from Melbourne, how’d you end up living in Melbourne, Australia?

I grew up in the suburb of Paris and moved to London for work when I graduated. I lived there for 4 years and loved the city, but I was feeling the impact of the lack of sunlight. In June 2016, it rained for 25 days in a row, so I decided enough was enough, and drunkenly bought a working holiday visa and a flight to Australia. And here I am!

Who are the kind of people that you look up to and why?

Anyone who is kind, humble and respects others in their differences really.

What’s your favorite place to eat in Melbourne and your #1 dish recommendation?

I don’t have a favorite place to eat, I just love South East Asian food in general. But let’s face it, nothing’s better than a good cheese platter.

If you could go back in time to your first martial art class, what would be the advice you give to your past self?

Chill the f**k out.

“Juliette is one of those amazing people who just brighten up the room with their presence. Her work ethic is absolutely insane. I know she regularly pulls double shifts as a chef then comes to the gym and rolls like a beast in the 10am competition session, does a lunchtime class AND trains again in the evening. You can tell she’s the happiest when she’s choking you with your own lapel. Slightly crazy and absolutely loveable.”- Richard Lattemagi

“Juliette is a rock star. She rolls like a freight train on the mat and doesn’t do any drama off the mat. I couldn’t ask for a better teammate.”- Kim Cousins

“One of the many French savages we have at Absolute.” – Nick Metcalfe

“Juliette visited us back in 2017. She left and then because she liked us so much, she came back and hasn’t left since. Not sure what it is but we sure seem to attract the best of the best from France. Hope she never leaves.” – Apryl Eppinger

“Juliette’s such a firecracker! Always a smile on her face, bouncing with energy, 3 seconds away from landing a wicked ezekiel. She’s awesome ” – Natalie Hobbs